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bironic ([personal profile] bironic) wrote2011-05-18 09:39 pm
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Leonard Nimoy; vignettes from my life; tonight

My first convention was William Shatner and Leonard Nimoy at the Nassau Coliseum on Long Island when I was about 10 years old. My mom won a pair of tickets by answering a radio station trivia question about which two characters Diana Muldaur had played on the original series. My mom and I were super-excited—she'd been a Trekkie since she was a girl, and she'd raised me on it—and my dad and sister less so, but we still bought two more tickets and the whole family went. It was the 25th anniversary of TOS.

I remember the vendors set up along the outer ring of the convention center. I got a TNG insignia pin from one of them. (We are talking about a time when "I got" still meant "my parents bought for me," because $13 was a hefty sum for a kid on a 25-cents-a-week allowance.) It's funny to think back on it now and imagine just how many fangirls (and -boys) and slashers and 'zine publishers and VCR vidders must have been there, and what panels or meetings must have been going on in other rooms. I wasn't connected to any of that. We just walked around and took our seats.

The first two vids I ever saw were screened at the start of that show. I don't know if they were fan-produced or part of the franchise; can't remember details or quality to guess. Doubtless someone on Fanlore or elsewhere could say. But I do remember that one was Kirk-centric and set to Rod Stewart's "Forever Young," while the other was Spock-centric and set to U2's "I Still Haven't Found What I'm Looking For."

Then there was the comedy routine—er, I mean the talks from the two of them—and the Q&A. I'd forgotten most of the content until browsing YouTube just now, when a clip showed up about WS having stolen LN's bicycle. Probably more would swim back up to consciousness if I thought about it for a while. But at the moment, there's just that and one question from a kid that showed up later in a pull quote in a Newsday story about the event. Something about whether Nimoy would go to space if he could. The quote definitely ended: "I've been," Nimoy responded. I kept the clipping in my room for months.

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Twenty years later
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Picture this: Leonard Nimoy stands on the bima with his tallit draped over his head and shoulders, bowing and chanting in Hebrew, voice rising every few lines only to fall again (to laughs from the audience), his hands held out in front of him with fingers split in the shape of shin -- also the shape of the Vulcan greeting.

It was, as he told it, a recreation of the "chilling" sight his father had told him not to watch when he was eight years old in their family's synagogue, as the men brought down the blinding light of the feminine aspect of God to the congregation. He relayed the story, familiar to Trekkies, about how he adopted the sign for the Vulcan people when they shot "Amok Time."

So. Leonard Nimoy came to speak at a temple in Maryland tonight for about an hour. I think we all would have listened to him for another hour. Entertaining and moving and personal. Locals, you are all very sorry you didn't want to come.

He started out with a couple of anecdotes about how his life changed after Star Trek started, which surely was designed to satisfy the Trekkies in the audience first thing. And ST came up a number of times afterward, of course. But he also talked about growing up in a tenement immigrant neighborhood in West Boston by MGH; driving then-Senator JFK from one Beverly Hills hotel to another when he (Nimoy) was moonlighting as a taxi driver; his work on a movie about a Holocaust survivor taking on denialists; a trip he took to his parents' village in the Ukraine after he'd been in Moscow to screen The Voyage Home, on the occasion of Russia declaring a moratorium on whaling, and met relatives who'd kept photographs of their far-away cousins' grandchildren in a pristine envelope in a drawer for twenty years. He recited a Yiddish poem and a Hebrew prayer. He wore a kippah.

On pon farr: "It's an event. And one well worth waiting for."

It was wonderful to listen as a Trekkie and just as wonderful to listen as someone who has also been raised a Jew on the East Coast of the U.S., even if half a century later. It felt like a communal experience I'm having trouble articulating -- one layer of knowing that there were some Jewish influences in Spock and in Star Trek as a whole -- another hearing about similar experiences or ways of thinking or cultural awareness or subjects of interest from the man who played Spock, who was standing there 100 feet away. I mean, it wasn't a transcendent moment or anything, it was just -- personal. Unexpectedly. Sharing a culture with someone who seemed so untouchable in his celebrity.

He just turned 80. You could hear him breathing between sentences.

On Star Trek, he asked (rhetorically) why has it stuck? and were there Jewish influences he or others had worked in to the show? His thoughts on the former: That there was hope for the future; that it was multicultural; that there was a chemistry, an idea, that took hold at the right time. That his character embodied the struggle between emotion and reason that rules many people's lives. On the latter: that the show emphasized compassion, the dignity of the individual, the importance of education, and tikkun olam -- what he called the mission of the Enterprise, to bring peace and make planets better places. And other things I'm forgetting already. But it was neat.

Trivia: "Nimoy" means "mute" in Russian, he said.

He said as soon as "Amok Time" aired, children, waiters in restaurants, truck drivers would throw up a hand at him and go, "Eh, Spock!"

He called his younger self "enterprising" when he'd moved from Boston to L.A., and then he stopped, laughed, and said he hadn't meant to do that. Said there are some words in the English language he has had some trouble with for the last 40 years.

Said his first movie was Zombies of the Stratosphere and he's not sure why that didn't catapult him immediately into stardom.

Toward the end, he choked up when he talked about the formation of the state of Israel and what it meant for a people who'd been turned away from Europe, from Cuba, from the U.S. when the war was starting. He cited Frost's line about how there was (is) finally a place for Jews to call home, where they had to (have to) take you in.

(The terrible thought occurs to you that he's an actor. That he might be acting when he stops, throat thick, and puts a hand on his chest as if it's a moment of silence. But that maybe he's not that good an actor. You wonder why he would want to or need to force that kind of emotion.)

Running out of highlights. Was just a great evening.

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Meanwhile, in New York
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Seeing RSL in Born Yesterday Saturday night. New Yorkers, speak now or forever hold your peace.

[identity profile] synn.livejournal.com 2011-05-19 03:10 am (UTC)(link)
in a bit of media irony, the family guy that references tng started as I was reading this. Naturally, this was 100 times better. I wish I could have been there to see him with you - it sounds like a great experience.
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[identity profile] bironic.livejournal.com 2011-05-23 11:17 pm (UTC)(link)
Ha. Was there only one Family Guy that referenced TNG? :) Or am I thinking of American Dad (*shudder*), with Patrick Stewart as the CIA guy or whatever, and the episode where they went to the SF convention?

Anyway. Yes, it was fantastic, and I wish you could have been there, just as I wish you could be here in general. *waits impatiently*

[identity profile] synn.livejournal.com 2011-05-24 12:35 am (UTC)(link)
I think there's only one family gjy that references TNT- stewie kidnaps the cast from a convention and they all act like children. It's pretty funny.

[identity profile] zulu.livejournal.com 2011-05-19 04:28 am (UTC)(link)
Wow, that sounds like such an amazing event! I'm really sorry I missed him when he came to my neck of the woods (Vulcan, Alberta!), but unfortunately he came when I was overseas. ALAS.
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[identity profile] bironic.livejournal.com 2011-05-23 11:18 pm (UTC)(link)
...Vulcan, Alberta?!

*looks it up*

Oh, wow. (http://www.vulcantourism.com/) That is great. Looks like they've truly owned their coincidence.

[identity profile] mer-duff.livejournal.com 2011-05-19 05:18 am (UTC)(link)
I wish I could have made it to New York this weekend. Stupid work (or rather, stupid volunteer commitments related to work). I'm still hoping to get there in the next month, but it won't be as good as if I'd gotten to meet you and Dee as well.

Leonard Nimoy sounds amazing.
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[identity profile] bironic.livejournal.com 2011-05-23 11:11 pm (UTC)(link)
I was really sorry to miss you. If you are comfortable with it, let me know if/when you do decide to go? I may be back for Father's Day and could meet up if the timing works out.

[identity profile] mer-duff.livejournal.com 2011-05-25 06:31 am (UTC)(link)
Right not it's looking like either the weekend of June 10-12 or Father's Day, as I've got commitments on both of the next two weekends. I can't put it off any later than that, partly because I'm going to Europe in July, and partly because I want to see Arcadia (what's the verdict on this production?). I'll keep you updated - maybe it will help me not procrastinate the opportunity away...
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[identity profile] bironic.livejournal.com 2011-05-26 11:22 pm (UTC)(link)
Actually, one of those weekends is my dad's birthday, so I would have an excuse to travel up either way. Hm.

[identity profile] mer-duff.livejournal.com 2011-05-27 05:53 am (UTC)(link)
And I should check my calendars better - I'm playing in a band festival on the 11th, so that weekend is out. It would have been out anyway, though, because I couldn't risk being out of town if the Canucks win the Stanley Cup. On the other hand, the work function that was scheduled for the 3rd has been postponed, so that weekend is back in play.

And the crazy thing is, if I'm going to be in New York anyway, it would be cheaper for me to fly to Tampa or take the bus to Boston and get a ticket for game 3 than it would to buy a ticket for a game here (they're currently selling for over $900 here vs. $200 in Tampa and $450 in Boston).
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[identity profile] bironic.livejournal.com 2011-06-02 11:18 pm (UTC)(link)
Any progress on the planning front, btw? It's getting to the point where I should get my train tickets, and I'm looking at either the 11/12th (which I know you can't make :( ) or the 18/19th.

[identity profile] mer-duff.livejournal.com 2011-06-03 03:43 am (UTC)(link)
I finally progressed from talk to action today! Air Canada has an awesome seat sale on right now, so I'm booked for the weekend of the 18/19th (fly in late on June 16 and fly out early on the 20th, so I'm just going to stay in Newark on the first and last nights).

The weird part - I asked for the days off today and mentioned the seat sale, and my boss decided he needed to go as well. (But it gave me the excuse to spend most of the afternoon researching booking things for him). It means we'll probably have meetings on Friday, but I don't have to feel guilty about taking the Monday as well.

Would you have time to see a show? I'm assuming you don't want to see Born Yesterday again, so I'll probably go on Friday (Max is going to War Horse that night, but I think I'll wait until I'm in London where I can see it for half the price).

[identity profile] mer-duff.livejournal.com 2011-06-03 05:14 pm (UTC)(link)
And there's no performance on the 17th (or the 16th), but there is an evening performance on the 19th, which is when I'll probably see it, as it opens up another theatre slot! I knew there was a reason I stayed over until the Monday.
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[identity profile] bironic.livejournal.com 2011-06-04 02:24 am (UTC)(link)
Okay! Hurrah. I will go up that weekend, then. Let me get some more details and get back to you on plans -- I suspect seeing you midday/afternoon Saturday in NYC will work best. May I follow up via email?

[identity profile] mer-duff.livejournal.com 2011-06-04 05:05 am (UTC)(link)
Awesome! Email me when you get a chance (the address on my profile is still good). I've got a couple of potential meetings on Friday, but nothing else locked down. Fortunately Max doesn't seem to care what I do, as long as I get him into good shows :)

[identity profile] deelaundry.livejournal.com 2011-05-19 11:36 am (UTC)(link)
I could not have handled leaving my house tonight, but that experience sounds incredible. I'm so glad you went.
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[identity profile] bironic.livejournal.com 2011-05-23 11:15 pm (UTC)(link)
<3
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[identity profile] anatsuno.livejournal.com 2011-05-19 12:33 pm (UTC)(link)
that sounds like an amzaing evening. ♥
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[identity profile] bironic.livejournal.com 2011-05-23 11:12 pm (UTC)(link)
It truly was. I was so happy to be there and almost as happy to be able to share with all of you who are interested.

[identity profile] alpheratz.livejournal.com 2011-05-19 12:56 pm (UTC)(link)
That sounds really special. I'm so glad you got to attend!
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[identity profile] bironic.livejournal.com 2011-05-23 11:15 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks! Me too, and it truly was. There were some parts I think you would really have enjoyed.

[identity profile] cincodemaygirl.livejournal.com 2011-05-19 02:27 pm (UTC)(link)
That sounds amazing--I'm so sorry I had to pass on it. :-( Thank you for telling us about it!
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[identity profile] bironic.livejournal.com 2011-05-23 11:15 pm (UTC)(link)
It really was. Too bad not to have had friends along, but it is happy-making to have people read this and enjoy!

[identity profile] kassrachel.livejournal.com 2011-05-19 02:48 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, wow; this sounds so wonderful! Thank you, thank you for sharing this.
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[identity profile] bironic.livejournal.com 2011-05-23 11:12 pm (UTC)(link)
You in particular would have loved, loved, loved the evening. I think he is on a circuit - you might see if he's speaking near you. (Hopefully you haven't missed him. I heard he spoke at BU recently.)

[identity profile] chocolate-frapp.livejournal.com 2011-05-20 02:30 am (UTC)(link)
ooh, how awesome is that? I've always liked Leonard Nimoy.
and since I'm a MSTie as well as a Trekker I've sen him in Zombies of the Stratosphere too!
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[identity profile] bironic.livejournal.com 2011-05-23 11:13 pm (UTC)(link)
Ha! Was it awesomely terribly awesome?

[identity profile] chocolate-frapp.livejournal.com 2011-05-24 01:34 pm (UTC)(link)
hehe, yes it was.

[identity profile] elynittria.livejournal.com 2011-05-20 04:20 am (UTC)(link)
Sounds like a fascinating evening. ;)

Of course, the cynical side of me wonders whether, while talking about the formation of Israel, he said anything about the Palestinians and their current situation. (The subject was on my mind because of an op-ed in today's New York Times by a Likud MP who was advocating annexing most of the West Bank (http://www.nytimes.com/2011/05/19/opinion/19Danon.html), arguing that it should have been done in 1967 and that any such annexation would be forgiven and forgotten eventually.)

I'm looking forward to hearing your opinions about Born Yesterday.
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[identity profile] bironic.livejournal.com 2011-05-23 11:08 pm (UTC)(link)
They are up, such as they are. Heh.

Re: Israel and Palestine, no, Nimoy just segued from the S.S. St. Louis to the creation of the country and closed on his gratitude. I'm sure he would have many interesting things to say if engaged on that topic, and I'm just as sure he'd come out pro-Israel on a given question.

[identity profile] roga.livejournal.com 2011-05-20 02:19 pm (UTC)(link)
That sounds like such an amazing evening ♥. (Also, I don't know if you saw her, but [livejournal.com profile] marag was there too :-))
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[identity profile] bironic.livejournal.com 2011-05-23 11:13 pm (UTC)(link)
I did not see her among the masses, but I am not surprised she was also in attendance! Wish you could have been there too - you would have loved it.

[identity profile] daasgrrl.livejournal.com 2011-05-22 02:11 am (UTC)(link)
Hah, you're probably watching RSL even as I type *is jealous*

That sounds like an amazing talk - I'm kind of weirdly sad that he's gotten so old, although, you know, what would one expect? *g* I don't really find it suprising that you got that sense of identification with him over the shared aspects of your backgrounds, I think it's natural that you should, even if he is a 'celebrity'. Thanks for the review.
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[identity profile] bironic.livejournal.com 2011-05-23 11:14 pm (UTC)(link)
I guess it's not surprising in retrospect, but I wasn't expecting it. It was really lovely. And yeah, my mom and I were talking about it last year and realizing that both he and William Shatner are 80ish now. Pretty strange to think about, indeed, even if it's natural. Maybe stranger because they are forever 20- or 30-whatever in the reruns that still show up on TV.

[identity profile] damigella-314.livejournal.com 2011-05-23 05:38 am (UTC)(link)
Seeing LN and RSL in person within a few days. Totally awesome.
I had such a crush on Spock when a teenager. Thanks for sharing this.
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[identity profile] bironic.livejournal.com 2011-05-23 11:06 pm (UTC)(link)
As my mom (herself a sufferer of teenage Spock-crushes) pointed out when I talked to her - two Leonards in four days. :) Thanks for reading - I was really glad to share and to find that people were interested.

[identity profile] rubynye.livejournal.com 2011-06-02 02:07 am (UTC)(link)
It felt like a communal experience I'm having trouble articulating -- one layer of knowing that there were some Jewish influences in Spock and in Star Trek as a whole -- another hearing about similar experiences or ways of thinking or cultural awareness or subjects of interest from the man who played Spock, who was standing there 100 feet away. I mean, it wasn't a transcendent moment or anything, it was just -- personal. Unexpectedly. Sharing a culture with someone who seemed so untouchable in his celebrity.

That sounds lovely, moving, and connective indeed. I wish I'd wrangled harder to go see him when he spoke at the university where I work.