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Oct. 8th, 2009 05:29 pm
bironic: Neil Perry gazing out a window at night (Default)
[personal profile] bironic
I am in a lousy mood, I despair that I will ever enjoy this new job, and I think I'm coming down with a cold. To complete the quadrangle of unhappiness, I'm finally doing a friends-cut. It's been a long time coming, but it's really hard at the same time.

I'm doing this because my friends list is my reading list (I don't have any filters set up), and I need to cut back and clean up. The journals I've let go are generally because you're not there anymore, you post multiple times a day, our interests have diverged, or I keep running into spoilers. This doesn't mean I won't come by from time to time to see how you're doing.

Chances are we haven't talked in a really long time, but if you are sad (or mad) and would like to be added back because you're reading my locked posts, etc., just let me know. The list will probably be in flux for the next little while anyway.

And if you're hurt, I'm sorry. :(

Date: Oct. 8th, 2009 09:42 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] leiascully.livejournal.com
♥ I hope life gets better! I will leave you on in case you want to check in.

Date: Oct. 8th, 2009 09:45 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] topaz-eyes.livejournal.com
*hugs bironic*

I hope things start looking up soon and we turn that quadrangle of unhappiness into a circle of happiness... :-(

Date: Oct. 8th, 2009 10:36 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] spoopy.livejournal.com


I understand cleaning up and cutting back when it comes to f-lists. Sometimes they just get too out of control.

Good luck with everything. I hope things start to look up for you soon. :-(

♥ ♥ ♥

Date: Oct. 8th, 2009 10:41 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] synn.livejournal.com
*HUGS* I hope you are okay. Email me if you want to 'chat' as it were, because when you are sad I am displeased

Date: Oct. 8th, 2009 11:28 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] deelaundry.livejournal.com
I adore you and am miserable that you are sad. : (

Date: Oct. 8th, 2009 11:35 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] thewlisian-afer.livejournal.com
D: I don't comment because I'm a ball of emo, too, and have nothing constructive to say, but I read...

Date: Oct. 8th, 2009 11:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] zulu.livejournal.com
I'm sorry about the job. And the cold, ugh: that'll add a side to any polygon of sadness. I hope things swing upwards soon. *hugs*

Date: Oct. 9th, 2009 12:30 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mer-duff.livejournal.com
I'm sad that you're sad. Hang in there - sometimes it takes a little time to make a job your own. None of the things that I love about my job were part of my original job description (of course neither were a couple of things that I dislike, so not all evolution is good...).

I hope you feel better soon!

Date: Oct. 9th, 2009 12:39 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] purridot.livejournal.com
*pet pet* You'll figure out the dynamic of the new job soon. Think of how hard it was for the Stargate gang when they first got to Atlantis...!

All jobs have sucky sides. If I have to explain ONE MORE TIME what a direct object is I am going to strangle someone... perhaps myself :S

Date: Oct. 9th, 2009 01:50 am (UTC)
bell: rory gilmore running in the snow in a fancy dress (hold me)
From: [personal profile] bell
Maybe you'll come to love this job; maybe you won't. But you've proven to yourself, in the past, that you won't content yourself with just a Job-- you'll keep working to find what's good for you. So even if this job doesn't ever fulfill you (though I hope it does), there's always the search for more.

*sends support and sympathy*

Date: Oct. 9th, 2009 02:05 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] elynittria.livejournal.com
(((HUGS)))

I'm sorry to hear you're feeling down, and fervently hope that it's only temporary.

Congrats on graduating, BTW. I enjoyed the pix on your blog. I was going to comment there, but felt awkward.

(((HUGS AGAIN)))

Date: Oct. 9th, 2009 02:30 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stephantom.livejournal.com
Bummer. I'm not hurt, I understand. It's just always kind of sad to realize when things have changed. Alas, those good old LJ days of season 2/3 House... (And I probably do post too much.)

I hope you're feeling better soon and that you job improves. And, also I still think you're awesome.

Date: Oct. 9th, 2009 03:15 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] daasgrrl.livejournal.com
I TOO HAVE A COLD *SNIFFLES*

I'm sorry you're having a bad time though *hugs*

Date: Oct. 9th, 2009 06:42 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jadesfire.livejournal.com
Oh hon, I'm so sorry you're down. *passes tissues* Take care of yourself and I hope you feel better soon

*hugs tight*

Date: Oct. 9th, 2009 01:55 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] ignazwisdom.livejournal.com
On the other hand, you have GREAT HAIR and a CUTE JACKET. *hugs*

Date: Oct. 9th, 2009 03:53 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] roga.livejournal.com
*hugs* and ♥. Things'll get better. And I know what you mean about your flist (I think I'm on my way to cut too, though it hurts my heart.)

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