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First of all, a great big Happy Birthday to [livejournal.com profile] thewlisian_afer! (A little early.) May this year bring you love, health, clarity, and most of all, happiness. *hugs*

Second, I've got jury duty starting tomorrow. Possibly also ending tomorrow; don't know yet. Am so happy not to have to go in to the office, even though the courthouse is all the way on the other side of the county. I actually wouldn't mind being selected for a jury; I've never served on one, and it may mean more days off work.

Anyone see the lunar eclipse last night? It rose here just after totality, but we still saw it fully in shadow (at least, when those pesky clouds didn't obscure the view), all orangey-red, and took some time-lapse photos before the sliver of brightness started to shine. We also tried looking through our telescope, but the thing's such a piece of crap that we couldn't keep the moon from sliding out of view even when we locked the scope in place.

My sister and a few of her friends have taken a mini-vacation to L.A., staying with Ryan in his beach house in Malibu and did I mention she's so much cooler than I am? So get this: she called me Friday to inform me that Ryan had auditioned for the role Dave Matthews landed on House. How insanely awesome would that have been, to have known someone doing a guest role on the show? My sister said she "totally would have hooked [me] up with that." It kind of hurts to think about how close I could have been to RSL and the rest of the team in some way or another.

Until recently, I'd always been a serial monogamist when it came to fandoms, with the occasional threesome (the Star Treks, BtVS and Angel) to spice things up. When I read fanfic in more than one fandom, usually just one was active and the other(s) were old favorites. Now it looks like I'm a fallen woman. This last week, I've read fic in and/or watched MI-5, House, Harry Potter, Stargate: Atlantis and The Return of Sherlock Holmes. I feel so... dirty. And yet strangely liberated. Does there come a point in every fangirl and fanboy's life when s/he rises above mere monofannishness and enjoys fanfiction as a phenomenon free of fandom specifics? I've been pondering this especially over the past few months as I've made a habit of reading fic in completely unfamiliar fandoms, first with Yuletide and now MI-5 and SGA.

One of the SGA fics I became engrossed in was the 183,000-word "Coming Home" by Xanthe (indexed here), an adventure/love story set in a well-realized AU where bisexual dom/sub relations are the societal norm and it's the "monosexuals" and "nondynamics" who face prejudice. John (top) and Rodney (sub) square off, gradually come to understand that they're perfect for each other, work through external and internal obstacles, almost die a few times, and explore the frightening and powerful depth of their relationship. I liked the first half best, from John and Rodney's introduction through their first few sexual encounters. They seemed most in-character there, and that's where all the tension lay. From there on out, the story focused more on the dynamics of dominance and submission—showing how BDSM must be consensual, and how dom/sub may be the ultimate expression of love and trust, and how difficult it is for the partners in both roles to fully inhabit their positions—, and on the mystical aspects of the life-bond that only the most deeply compatible lovers experience. My disinterest in the latter was a purely personal preference; the former... maybe it was a matter of not being able to entirely follow each man into his headspace as the relationship progressed, but I'd have liked more John/Rodney and less "his top"/"his sub," 'it was the best thing Rodney could ever imagine, surrendering everything he had to his top' kind of thing. Also, there were moments where John and Rodney's relationship tipped over into something too conventionally, sappily romantic for me, and the sex was mostly fairly straightforward: a surprising dose of normativity within the deviance. I'd like to write Xanthe to talk about it before going into more detail here, get a better idea of her goals when writing and her opinions once it was finished. But if anyone's interested, I'd recommend the story.

And that's all. Have a nice Monday!

Date: Mar. 5th, 2007 04:14 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] firestorm717.livejournal.com
Jury duty, sounds fun. Hope you get an interesting case instead of one of those traffic violation ones or whatever. Most people try to get out of them for work.

I'm sad I missed the lunar eclipse, although I suppose you could construe it as a belated pretty sight for my belated Lunar New Year celebration? <3 The Heavens working in my favor, for once?

Wow, that's really cool your sister has high-up friends like that XD.

I can't not be a monogamist when it comes to fandoms...if I have one, I obsess over it to no end and at the expense of all others. Tah, don't feel dirty. We all need variety sometimes.

Date: Mar. 5th, 2007 04:50 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] topaz-eyes.livejournal.com
Does there come a point in every fangirl and fanboy's life when s/he rises above mere monofannishness and enjoys fanfiction as a phenomenon free of fandom specifics?

Quite possibly. Which would explain how some authors can write in any fandom they choose.

Good luck with jury duty!

Date: Mar. 5th, 2007 04:59 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] daasgrrl.livejournal.com
I'm sure Xanthe would love a chat about her fic - she's amazing, obviously, but I just could not get into SGA! :)

Date: Mar. 5th, 2007 05:04 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] zulu.livejournal.com
It really came as a surprise to me to realize how many fandoms I've written in. But they're mostly one-offs. I'm serially monogamous, too, with one central fandom at all times, but then, I've always got a fling or two on the side. You may think of me as the Wilson of fandoms.

Date: Mar. 5th, 2007 05:07 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] thewlisian-afer.livejournal.com
♥ Thanks for the birthday wishes. :D

And congratulations on your multifannishness. XD For the longest time I was in the HP fandom and ONLY the HP fandom. But, uh ... they're batshit. So I found the non-wanky Firefly fandom and was amazed to find a place where people actually got along and misogyny and anti-feminism did not run rampant. OMG! And that positive experience pushed me into a bajillion other fandoms. Hah. Fun times, fun times.

Date: Mar. 6th, 2007 05:08 am (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] bironic.livejournal.com
Just to say again, happy birthday, although now it's past midnight, which means despite two well-wishes, we never actually spoke on the day itself. Meant to chat earlier but have been nursing my father through some fun food poisoning. :/ Hope you had a lovely day, and catch you soon...

Date: Mar. 5th, 2007 07:47 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] bell
Damn Dave Mathews! (hey, maybe she'll be auditioned for another role, since she seems to have her l337 connections and all.)

Does there come a point in every fangirl and fanboy's life when s/he rises above mere monofannishness and enjoys fanfiction as a phenomenon free of fandom specifics?

I call that "transitioning." *grins* When I'm not happy with one fandom, I start poking at other ones-- sometimes I end up with a new obsession, sometimes not. But I think it varies from fan to fan. Everyone has their own levels of slutiness skipping around. The ones who can write in multiple fandoms...!

Date: Mar. 5th, 2007 09:40 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] purridot.livejournal.com
May I ask where's the best Harry Potter fanfic these days? (I ship S/R if that helps...)

And where did you find Sherlock Holmes stuff?!?!

Also: Yay for lunar eclipse!

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